Step 24: Seek Relationship with People in Need.


daily text logoMarch 14, 2015

Luke 14:7-24

When he noticed how the guests picked the places of honor at the table, he told them this parable: “When someone invites you to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, for a person more distinguished than you may have been invited. If so, the host who invited both of you will come and say to you, ‘Give this person your seat.’ Then, humiliated, you will have to take the least important place.
But when you are invited, take the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he will say to you, ‘Friend, move up to a better place.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all the other guests. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Then Jesus said to his host, “When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”When one of those at the table with him heard this, he said to Jesus, “Blessed is the one who will eat at the feast in the kingdom of God.”Jesus replied: “A certain man was preparing a great banquet and invited many guests. At the time of the banquet he sent his servant to tell those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’“But they all alike began to make excuses. The first said, ‘I have just bought a field, and I must go and see it. Please excuse me.’

“Another said, ‘I have just bought five yoke of oxen, and I’m on my way to try them out. Please excuse me.’

“Still another said, ‘I just got married, so I can’t come.’

“The servant came back and reported this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and ordered his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the town and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.’

“‘Sir,’ the servant said, ‘what you ordered has been done, but there is still room.’

“Then the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the roads and country lanes and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full. I tell you, not one of those who were invited will get a taste of my banquet.’”


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The poor, the crippled, the blind and the lame.

I have no idea what it is like to be any of these people.

I do know what it is like to be rich (in comparison to the majority of people in the world). I know what is like to be healthy, independent, privileged and honored.

Jesus clearly favored the down and out. Why is this?

Perhaps it is because these were the people who knew their need of God. That’s the dangerous thing about wealth, and health and security and independence and privilege and  honor; they insulate us from staying in touch with our need of God.

We need to remember, Jesus is having dinner with people of status and honor. These remarks are addressed to them. He is telling people of privilege (like me and probably you) what following him looks like for them.

“When someone invites you to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, . . . But when you are invited, take the lowest place,”

But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed.

Jesus is teaching us what God is like and it is surprising. We tend to live by the old adage, often attributed to the Bible, “The Lord helps those who help themselves.” According to Jesus, this could not be further from the truth. Jesus seems to say, “The Lord helps those who cannot help themselves.” He tells us, in effect, if we want to be like God (i.e. Holy) we must seek out these people who cannot help themselves. Why?

This is not charity he’s talking about. It’s not a handout he’s asking for. Jesus is calling us to invite them to our banquet– to treat them as our friends; to enter into relationship with them. Why?

The closer we get to these people who cannot help themselves the more we will realize they are fundamentally the same as us. The closer we get to them, the less we will be able to hide behind our theory that they they are getting what they deserve; which is another way of saying we are getting what we deserve. The more we come into touch with people in need of mercy, the more in touch we will become of our own need for mercy because we will come to realize that just as no person deserves to be poor, no person deserves to be rich either. At the core of the core, we are the same.

Jesus isn’t after a permanent welfare state any more than he is for the forced redistribution of wealth. Jesus is looking for the love of God to become the core and compelling reality of our lives. This love makes us humble and helpful which is another way of saying holy.

The truth? The rich are in need of the poor as much or more than the poor are in need of the rich. It’s not about charitable giving and the transfer of wealth. It’s about what money can never buy: human relationships founded in the Love of God.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me a sinner.


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